A neo-tribe in Alaska?

topic posted Mon, September 10, 2007 - 2:28 PM by  Hxaosanto
We are a couple seeking others like us. We realize that people don't often function well alone, or even in extremely small groups (think "single family"). We believe that the two of us (and many others) work well in tribes. We would like to create such a tribe.

He is a yoga instructor/philosopher/magickian. She is an herbalist/nutritionist/natural shaman. We are currently (and for the foreseeable future) eating a "paleo" or "caveman" diet. We are mature, in love, and full of ideals and energy. We know more than some people, and less than others. We are ready to move forward.

We wish to have a tribe of people. The number is flexible but should be kept below Dunbar's Number ( en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar's_number ); 25 to 50 is probably a good range. These people would help one another, feed one another, heal one another, and tell stories to one another. We would mostly disconnect from "modern society", as we feel that although society does have some benefits, it is not being expressed in a wise manner at this time. We would interact with society only on certain matters which lie at the border of our common goals: land ownership, taxes, income, interacting with people outside our tribe, Internet access, books, certain realms of knowledge that mesh with our goals, etc. We could host retreats for those who wish to experience our lives and their own. We could write, paint, sing, and teach for any income we need.

We are currently living near Boulder, CO. For various reasons, we don't like it and are planning to move by Summer 2008. In the meantime, we could create community here, sharing a home or homes, and seeing how we fit together as people.

Where will we move? We will most likely move to Alaska. Yes, you heard correctly: Alaska. Beautiful, natural, more temperate than you may think, full of sustainable natural resources, a non-oppressive government and populace, plenty of space, a reasonable cost - all these things are benefits, but we're getting the impression that there is something else there: that it is "real". The people there are "real". Not in some "keep it real, dude!" sort of way, but in a "If you do this, you'll succeed, but do this other thing and you die. Good luck!" sort of way. The few Alaskans we know are very alive, real, honest people.

That's what we're seeking: "real" people. We have met our shares of flakes. We understand that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and that everyone is improving parts of themselves throughout their lives. But, to do this, people must be willing to truly live and love and be. We will hunt together, build together, make music together, and create lives together. Be "real", and we'll all learn and grow.

Drop us a note if you're interested (tell us why), or if you're not interested (tell us why not), or if you have a comment.

Thank you!
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Hxaosanto
Tucson
  • Re: A neo-tribe in Alaska?

    Sun, October 14, 2007 - 1:21 AM
    I am a young man from the back woods of east texas. I was born fifth in a family of seven, averaging less than 20,000 a year total income. Neither of my parents went to college, so times were tough on the small farm house on 20 acres in the middle of the east texas woods. Being one of seven kids, it was easy to be forgotten about at a young age and wander out into the woods for hours at a time, watching my older borthers and learning basic woodsmenship. We didnt recieve more than six television channels until I was fourteen, and I grew up in an environment were if you give support, you recieve support, and I now realize why I find no peace in the current culture dominating and keeping under lock and key all resources needed for survival. I made it through the first 12 years of a educational system that cranks out a population with near 0% survival rate outside of the dominating influence of the current culture, and actually did very well without any actual sense of motivation. For some reason this has been the one predominant thing in my interaction with today's society, lack of motivation. Through my travels, studys, and experiences I have met youth after youth trapped in this unmotivated, collegiate- intellectual sub-culture, who feel something that's more than what's offered to them behind a desk in the back corner of a beurocracy, but see no way to escape it. I've spent the past two years at two different colleges on opposites sides of Texas, and through a few events; which at the time I thought were unfortunate but now view as growing experiences: I ended up homeless in both towns, and still going to college, with no support whatsoever besides people met in college, and survived both times by a system of giving support and receiving support that bonded me with some of the closest friends I've ever made.... we bonded on a tribal level. There are many other thoughts I have, and I know other like-minded, good-hearted, intellectual people who feel like they have no place in today's culture... Maybe we should create our own? If your serious about this, we could continue this discussion. I'd like to hear your thoughts.
    • Re: A neo-tribe in Alaska?

      Mon, October 15, 2007 - 9:55 AM
      What an excellent reply!

      I also grew up in Texas, and have lived in east Texas. You're right; there is a sense of community there in many ways. People are friendly and helpful. I can't count the number of times that someone has visited Texas and said, "Wow! Everyone here is so friendly and helpful!"

      "I know other like-minded, good-hearted, intellectual people who feel like they have no place in today's culture... Maybe we should create our own? If your serious about this, we could continue this discussion. I'd like to hear your thoughts."

      This is what we're doing. :-) And, yes, we are serious.

      Let's talk more. Drop me a private note, if you'd like.